tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post112381839029153211..comments2023-09-30T11:09:04.761-05:00Comments on Personal Velocity: Gurgle, gurgle ....Rheahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02354343772757799928noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1124259189840165242005-08-17T01:13:00.000-05:002005-08-17T01:13:00.000-05:00To Truth: I love the barefoot idea. It's great tha...To Truth: I love the barefoot idea. It's great that you injected humor into a ceremony that's much too stuffy!Rheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02354343772757799928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1124259116208908382005-08-17T01:11:00.000-05:002005-08-17T01:11:00.000-05:00Good comments, all. And I'm especially grateful to...Good comments, all. And I'm especially grateful to my fellow RBF'ers, for their sage (as usual) advice. Will keep you posted on the nuptials!Rheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02354343772757799928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1124201174737403922005-08-16T09:06:00.000-05:002005-08-16T09:06:00.000-05:00I eat banannas when my stomach is like that, and s...I eat banannas when my stomach is like that, and stay away from coffee. Honestly, it really works.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there!playfulinnchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13252177161120512375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1124135948038297472005-08-15T14:59:00.000-05:002005-08-15T14:59:00.000-05:00Hang in there, Bex. Hope your stomach will make i...Hang in there, Bex. Hope your stomach will make it through the ceremony! :D <BR/><BR/>"It's just, wow, marriage. It is a big effing deal. When you're in a relationship but not married, and one or both of you mess up, it's like, "No harm, no foul." <BR/><BR/>Actually, I think you have this backwards. I always thought that if you are swearing an oath, in front of everyone, of ultimate loyalty Jon (was) in Michiganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17457505077183982152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1123991129556535312005-08-13T22:45:00.000-05:002005-08-13T22:45:00.000-05:00(Oh geeze, now you're getting comment spam! Just w...(Oh geeze, now you're getting comment spam! Just what you need!)<BR/><BR/>I feel for you re: wedding b.s. What <EM>is</EM> it with relatives? They all need to just <EM>chill</EM>!!<BR/><BR/>This is a big leap, and if you weren't freaking out a little, that would be weird. So, you're normal.<BR/><BR/>If I ever take the plunge again, it will be small, smaller, and simple. Like cake and punch simplejeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15105083650427355181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1123867580096491992005-08-12T12:26:00.000-05:002005-08-12T12:26:00.000-05:00I'm sure if I had a planned wedding with all the w...I'm sure if I had a planned wedding with all the whistles and bells I would have jumped ship. instead we did our usual spontaneous thing and went to the judge one day to get it over with. he called his mom afterwards and I never did really tell my folks. Our neighbors were fighting the other day about how to celebrate their anniversary and we couldn't remember exactly what day ours was.Deenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12619954455326699381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1123860729529745112005-08-12T10:32:00.000-05:002005-08-12T10:32:00.000-05:00hmm...well bex - since you seem intent upon this m...hmm...well bex - since you seem intent upon this marriage thing the idea here is to celebrate your relationship with Mr. Wee. In honor of that perhaps we can call you bexwee?<BR/>The actual event is you sharing vows - significant certainly but overcrowded by other's expectations & desires, pomp & circumstance. Maybe the key is to take everything with a grain of salt.<BR/>I did this at my very Truth Is Strangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15736099786274266787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7230383.post-1123819499245006782005-08-11T23:04:00.000-05:002005-08-11T23:04:00.000-05:00Maybe I'll pass you on my bike on the Mt. Vernon t...Maybe I'll pass you on my bike on the Mt. Vernon trail soon. And I'd still rather be in your position - on the cusp of marriage - than my desperately single status now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com